For many loneliness does not look like what we expect. It is not always someone sitting completely alone.
Sometimes it’s the busy parent who hasn’t had a meaningful conversation in weeks. The retiree who misses being part of a team. The person surrounded by people at work but who still feels disconnected. Or the newcomer to an area who simply doesn’t know where they belong yet.
That growing sense of disconnection is one of the reasons they started the Social Local Collective — a local charity focused on improving what’s increasingly being called our “social health.”
Social health is the quality of our relationships, our sense of belonging, and our opportunities for genuine connection. Research around the world is now showing that strong social connection is just as important to our well-being as physical activity, nutrition and sleep.
Recently, author and social health expert Kasley Killam spoke with Mel Robbins about the growing crisis of adult loneliness and friendship. One of the most powerful parts of the conversation was the reminder that friendship and belonging do not happen accidentally anymore — especially in adulthood. We often assume connection should “just happen,” but modern life has quietly removed many of the spaces where friendships once naturally formed.
People are working longer hours, spending more time online, moving more frequently, and participating less in community groups than previous generations. Many adults are quietly asking themselves the same question: “Why is it suddenly so hard to make friends?” The truth is, many people in our community feel exactly the same way.
That’s why the Social Local Collective exists. They want to create relaxed, welcoming opportunities for people to meet, connect, make friends, and feel part of something again — without pressure, awkwardness, or the need to “fit in.” For the team, this work has been growing for many years.
Before starting the Social Local Collective, Myf Webster spent many years working in Hornsby with Fusion Sydney North, helping develop community dinners, support programs, drop-in spaces and grassroots initiatives for people experiencing hardship, social isolation and disconnection. During that time, she saw something important again and again: while practical support matters enormously, human connection is often the thing people are missing most and can also have the biggest impact on your health!
A conversation. A place to belong. Familiar faces. Being noticed. Feeling welcomed. Those things can genuinely change lives.
You may already have seen the team out and about in the community, perhaps at Side Walk Talk in Hornsby Mall where they simply sit, listen and chat with locals who would like someone to talk to. They have hosted multicultural community dinners and supported community initiatives such as the Hornsby Village Hub — a fun and welcoming social group for older Australians that Brooke Grimsted (the other half of the Social Local Collective), helped establish through her work at Sydney North Health Network.
One of the ways they are currently bringing this vision to life is through their newest initiative — The Social Pudding Club. Yes, it really is about pudding. But it’s also about much more than pudding.
The Social Pudding Club is a relaxed monthly afternoon tea where people of all ages gather to share dessert, conversation and community. Some people bring a pudding to share, while others simply come along to taste, chat and enjoy the atmosphere. There’s no pressure to know anyone beforehand, and in fact many people come on their own.
They’ve intentionally designed the event to feel easy, warm and welcoming — particularly for people who might feel nervous attending something social by themselves.
The Social Pudding Club is held on the first Saturday of each month for the next five months at Turramurra Uniting Church from 2pm to 4pm, and everyone is welcome.
They also have lots of other activities they will be launching soon for people of all ages as they continue trying to build more opportunities for social connection. They would love to see you at one of their events! Or if you have ideas about what you would like to see, they’d love to hear from you too!
SOCIAL LOCAL COLLECTIVE
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